🌴 Why You Should Take Yourself on a Honeymoon (Even If You’re Very Much Single)

Honeymoon, Party of One

Let’s clear the air: just because you don’t have a “significant other” doesn’t mean you can’t hop on a plane and sip champagne somewhere tropical with yourself. In fact, you should.

Because spoiler alert: You are the love of your life. And the best part? You don’t snore, hog the blankets, or insist on 6am hikes “for the views.”

1. The Ultimate Act of Self-Love

Taking yourself on a honeymoon is basically telling the universe:

“I deserve luxury, joy, and bottomless beach drinks, no man required.”

It's not about replacing a romantic partner — it's about prioritizing your own damn happiness. You plan the trip you want. No compromising on museums vs. naps. No fake enthusiasm over your partner’s idea of “romance” (aka hiking with blisters).

2. You Can Be as Extra as You Want

Splurge on the spa. Get the ocean view room. Order the lobster — twice. Solo honeymoons are your excuse to live like you're starring in your own romantic comedy montage.

On my solo trip to Tulum, I booked a cabana with a private plunge pool and a floating breakfast. I may or may not have taken 34 selfies and toasted to myself. It was glorious.

3. Nobody Can Ruin the Vibe

You know that couple that always fights on vacation? Yeah, you’re not them. No passive-aggressive comments. No “Where do you want to eat?” stand-offs. Just you, vibing, playlist on point, wearing that linen dress like it’s a fragrance ad.

There’s something wildly peaceful about not having to check in with someone else. Want to spend four hours reading under a palm tree? Go for it. Want to do sunrise yoga followed by afternoon mojitos? That’s balance, babe.

4. It’s the Ultimate Glow-Up Move

Everyone talks about post-breakup glow-ups. This is the next level. You’re not just leveling up physically — you’re expanding mentally, emotionally, and globally.

Traveling solo gives you clarity, confidence, and the kind of stories that start with “This one time, in Lisbon...” and end with “...and that’s why I don’t drink sangria at karaoke bars anymore.”

You’ll come back with a tan, a few extra freckles, and the audacity to know you deserve the most out of life.

5. Bonus: You Might Still Meet Someone

Let’s not lie: solo honeymoons can still have a little romance. I’ve met backpackers with accents, bartenders with charming smiles, and one very flirty Vespa rental guy in Italy. Am I saying you’ll find your soulmate? No. But you might find someone who buys you gelato and calls you bella — and that counts.

Where to Go on Your “Me Moon” (Yes, That’s a Thing Now)

• Santorini, Greece – sunsets, wine, and zero shame in wearing a white dress solo

• Ubud, Bali – healing energy, yoga, and smoothie bowls that taste like enlightenment

• Cartagena, Colombia – color, music, and spontaneous salsa dancing (I did it barefoot once and survived)

• Tulum, Mexico – jungle chic meets coastal bliss

• Lisbon, Portugal – where the wine is cheap and the locals flirt a lot

Final Thought: If Not Now, When?

Stop waiting for the right relationship, the right time, or someone to validate your trip. Your passport doesn’t care if you're single. Your bucket list doesn't come with a “plus one” requirement.

So go ahead — take yourself on a damn honeymoon.

You’re already the best partner you’ve ever had.